Okay. I feel stupid for even commenting on celebrity gossip. Normally I make a point of AVOIDING celebrity gossip. But my feathers have been ruffled, and thus I must take to my blog, get up on my soapbox, and say:
Yes. Bruce Jenner, of Olympic and Kardashian fame, looks a little bizarre right now. No longer masculine, yet not quite a woman, rumors are all a-flying.
Normally I don't give a SHIT what Bruce Jenner looks like.
But as one of those latest pictures floated across my FB page, with dozens of posters and commenters mocking his appearance, you know what I saw?
I saw a man who's wondering if he's transgender, or a transvestite. I saw a man who's considering transitioning to become something new.
And I saw people mocking him for it.
People facing gender identity issues are far more common than you may imagine. Experimentation in the name of finding the skin that suits is just as common. When I was a little girl, I tried to become a boy. Turns out, once hormones kicked in, I was mighty fine with being a girl.....but before those hormones overtook me, I dressed like a boy, cut my hair like a boy, and fought my mom any time she tried to get me into a dress.
Someone very close to me was once very similar to me. She, too, wanted to dress like a boy, cut her hair like a boy, and to BE a boy.
And for her, when hormones kicked in, it became clear she WAS a boy.
She is now a he, and he is one of my favorite people in the world.
The transition was tough. It was confusing for everyone involved, at least for a little while. But now it all makes perfect sense.
Imagine facing these questions yourself. Imagine feeling like your clothes don't fit. Imagine feeling like your body doesn't fit. Imagine having to tell all your friends and family, "Hey, I'm going to transition," or even, "Hey, I'm going to dress like this other person for a while, just to see if it fits."
Now imagine doing that as a celebrity, with the world watching.
Dude. Leave Bruce alone. He's clearly trying to work some stuff out, and our snarky comments aren't helping.
Thanks. I'll get off my soapbox now.